{"id":881,"date":"2018-01-15T23:01:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-15T23:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/?page_id=881"},"modified":"2026-10-06T14:59:53","modified_gmt":"2026-10-06T03:59:53","slug":"arranging-a-funeral","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/arranging-a-funeral\/","title":{"rendered":"Arranging A Funeral"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element in-legacy-container\" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1100\" height=\"400\" alt=\"Bet Olam - Arranging The Funeral\" title=\"Bet Olam &#8211; Arranging The Funeral\" src=\"https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/betOlamArranging1100x400.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/betOlamArranging1100x400-200x73.jpg 200w, https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/betOlamArranging1100x400-400x145.jpg 400w, https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/betOlamArranging1100x400-600x218.jpg 600w, https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/betOlamArranging1100x400-800x291.jpg 800w, https:\/\/stage.jewishfunerals.org.au\/wp61\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/betOlamArranging1100x400.jpg 1100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 1100px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:0px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:20px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:30;--minFontSize:30;line-height:1;\">What to expect<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p class=\"p1\">You don&#8217;t need to know the details before you meet with us.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">We will take you through each decision \u2014 including burial or cremation, when and where the funeral will take place, who will conduct it and what the service might include \u2014 one step at a time.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p class=\"p1\">Arranging a funeral is something most of us only do a few times in our lives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It can feel like there are a lot of decisions to make at exactly the time when making decisions is hardest.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">You don&#8217;t need to know how funerals work, and you don&#8217;t need to have everything decided before you speak with us.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We will guide you through the arrangements, explain the choices available and help you create a funeral that is right for the person who has died and for your family.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"accordian fusion-accordian\" style=\"--awb-border-size:1px;--awb-icon-size:20px;--awb-content-font-size:var(--awb-typography4-font-size);--awb-content-letter-spacing:var(--awb-typography4-letter-spacing);--awb-content-text-transform:var(--awb-typography4-text-transform);--awb-content-line-height:var(--awb-typography4-line-height);--awb-icon-alignment:right;--awb-hover-color:#f9f9f9;--awb-border-color:#cccccc;--awb-background-color:#ffffff;--awb-divider-color:#e0dede;--awb-divider-hover-color:#e0dede;--awb-icon-color:var(--awb-color6);--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;--awb-icon-box-color:#333333;--awb-toggle-hover-accent-color:#af7e00;--awb-toggle-active-accent-color:var(--awb-color6);--awb-title-font-family:&quot;Cormorant Garamond&quot;;--awb-title-font-weight:600;--awb-title-font-style:normal;--awb-title-font-size:var(--awb-typography2-font-size);--awb-title-letter-spacing:var(--awb-typography2-letter-spacing);--awb-title-line-height:var(--awb-typography2-line-height);--awb-title-text-transform:var(--awb-typography2-text-transform);--awb-content-font-family:var(--awb-typography4-font-family);--awb-content-font-weight:var(--awb-typography4-font-weight);--awb-content-font-style:var(--awb-typography4-font-style);\"><div class=\"panel-group fusion-toggle-icon-right fusion-toggle-icon-unboxed\" id=\"accordion-881-1\"><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-015fc218fcef6dae5 fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-content-font-size:var(--awb-typography4-font-size);--awb-content-letter-spacing:var(--awb-typography4-letter-spacing);--awb-content-text-transform:var(--awb-typography4-text-transform);--awb-content-line-height:var(--awb-typography4-line-height);--awb-content-font-family:var(--awb-typography4-font-family);--awb-content-font-weight:var(--awb-typography4-font-weight);--awb-content-font-style:var(--awb-typography4-font-style);--awb-title-font-size:var(--awb-typography2-font-size);--awb-title-letter-spacing:var(--awb-typography2-letter-spacing);--awb-title-line-height:var(--awb-typography2-line-height);--awb-title-text-transform:var(--awb-typography2-text-transform);--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_015fc218fcef6dae5\"><a class=\"active\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-controls=\"015fc218fcef6dae5\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#015fc218fcef6dae5\" href=\"#015fc218fcef6dae5\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">1. The first conversation<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"015fc218fcef6dae5\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse in\" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_015fc218fcef6dae5\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">When you contact Bet-Olam Jewish Funerals (BOJF), we will begin by asking for some basic information about the person who has died, the circumstances of their death and where the person is, at the moment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We will explain what needs to happen immediately and arrange for the person who has died to be brought into our care when the necessary medical documentation and permissions are in place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We will then arrange a time to talk through the funeral arrangements with you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">You are welcome to have other family members or a trusted friend involved in these conversations.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-0f8e7663d3a6888a6 fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_0f8e7663d3a6888a6\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"0f8e7663d3a6888a6\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#0f8e7663d3a6888a6\" href=\"#0f8e7663d3a6888a6\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">2. Before the arrangement meeting<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"0f8e7663d3a6888a6\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_0f8e7663d3a6888a6\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">You don&#8217;t need to prepare extensively.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">If possible, try to find any information the person who died may have left about their funeral wishes, including a prepaid funeral plan or other written instructions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We will also need some personal information to register the death, including details such as:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\">full legal name<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">date and place of birth<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">residential address<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">marital or relationship details<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">details of parents, partners, siblings and children<br \/>\nincluding dates and places of birth and death<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">occupation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\">Don&#8217;t worry if you don&#8217;t have everything when we first meet.<br \/>\nWe will explain exactly what information is required and help you work through it.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-48da0aa1dede92b96 fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_48da0aa1dede92b96\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"48da0aa1dede92b96\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#48da0aa1dede92b96\" href=\"#48da0aa1dede92b96\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">3. What will we need to decide?<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"48da0aa1dede92b96\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_48da0aa1dede92b96\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">There are several decisions involved in arranging a funeral, but they do not all have to be made at once.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We will take you through them one at a time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><strong>Burial or cremation<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">While Jewish tradition has historically favoured burial, and burial remains important to many Jewish families, some families prefer to choose cremation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">BOJF will explain the practical arrangements involved in each option so that you can make the choice that is right for your circumstances and the wishes of the person who died.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><strong>When and where the funeral will take place<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Jewish funerals traditionally take place relatively soon after death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The actual timing will depend on several things, including when the person who died can be released into our care, cemetery or crematorium availability, the family&#8217;s circumstances and the availability of the person you would like to conduct the service.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We will work with you to find an appropriate time and place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>Who will conduct the funeral<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">You may already know whom you would like to conduct the funeral.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">This might be your rabbi, another rabbi or a civil celebrant.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">If you do not have someone in mind, that is fine too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">We can discuss the possibilities with you and help you find an appropriate person.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">The choice of officiant belongs to the family.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-3eef39fa58901a2df fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_3eef39fa58901a2df\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"3eef39fa58901a2df\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#3eef39fa58901a2df\" href=\"#3eef39fa58901a2df\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">4. The funeral service<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"3eef39fa58901a2df\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_3eef39fa58901a2df\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">The person who will conduct the funeral will meet with you to talk about the person who has died and help plan the service.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Depending on your wishes, the service might include:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\">Jewish prayers and readings<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">a eulogy or personal reflections<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">contributions from family or friends<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">music and poetry<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">particular readings or poems<\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\">other elements that were meaningful to the person who died or to your family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\">Some families wish to write and deliver their own eulogies or reflections. Others prefer that the person conducting the funeral do that on their behalf. This is something to discuss with your officiant at your meeting with them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A Jewish funeral can be deeply traditional, highly personal or somewhere in between. That choice is yours.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-149f97e4ae3af3293 fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_149f97e4ae3af3293\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"149f97e4ae3af3293\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#149f97e4ae3af3293\" href=\"#149f97e4ae3af3293\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">5. Jewish funeral &amp; Mourning traditions<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"149f97e4ae3af3293\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_149f97e4ae3af3293\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">You may wish to observe traditional Jewish practices associated with death and burial.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Bet-Olam has a team of dedicated and trained volunteers who will perform <i>tahara<\/i>, the ritual preparation of the body and dress your loved ones in simple white shrouds. We also provide a plain wooden coffin which, together with the shrouds, symbolise how we are all equal in death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Your officiant will explain other options and their meaning so you can decide what is appropriate for your family. These include <i>keriah<\/i><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>the traditional ritual of tearing one&#8217;s clothing or ribbon as a physical expression of grief and mourning<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>and the participation of mourners in the burial by placing earth into the grave.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Jewish tradition offers a series of markers to help guide mourners through the grieving process. They include <i>Shivah<\/i>, <i>Shloshim<\/i> and <i>Yahrzeit<\/i>. The person conducting your funeral service will discuss these with you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Some families choose to observe all of these traditions; others choose to observe some or none.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-86e84e2a29017802c fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_86e84e2a29017802c\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"86e84e2a29017802c\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#86e84e2a29017802c\" href=\"#86e84e2a29017802c\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">6. Notices and letting people know<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"86e84e2a29017802c\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_86e84e2a29017802c\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">Your Funeral Director will discuss how, when and to whom funeral details will be made available.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">You may wish to contact family, friends, a synagogue or other community organisations yourself. If you or the person who died are\/was a member of a synagogue, and you would like us to let them know, please do ask us to do that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">You decide who should be informed and what information you would like shared.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-bfc40c921c5031fcd fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_bfc40c921c5031fcd\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"bfc40c921c5031fcd\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#bfc40c921c5031fcd\" href=\"#bfc40c921c5031fcd\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">7. What about the cost?<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"bfc40c921c5031fcd\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_bfc40c921c5031fcd\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">We will be transparent about the costs involved before arrangements are finalised.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The costs we will quote will include BOJF&#8217;s services as well as charges from cemeteries, crematoria and other providers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Where there are choices that affect the cost, we will explain them clearly so you can make an informed decision.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Please feel comfortable asking what something costs and whether there are alternatives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Your choices are our tradition.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-e46fc5b028cb9defc fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_e46fc5b028cb9defc\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"e46fc5b028cb9defc\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#e46fc5b028cb9defc\" href=\"#e46fc5b028cb9defc\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">8. What happens on the day?<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"e46fc5b028cb9defc\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_e46fc5b028cb9defc\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">We will make sure you know where you need to be, when you need to arrive and what will happen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Our role is to take care of the practical arrangements so that you and your family can concentrate on saying goodbye.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">There is no particular way you are expected to feel, behave or dress at a funeral.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">You might cry, but you might not.<br \/>\nYou might find yourself laughing at something in a eulogy or you might simply be concentrating on getting through the day.<br \/>\nOften, all of the above might happen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">None of this is unusual. All of this is normal.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-43850c8efefea5571 fusion-toggle-no-divider fusion-toggle-boxed-mode\" style=\"--awb-title-color:#af7e00;--awb-content-color:#666666;\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h2 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_43850c8efefea5571\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"43850c8efefea5571\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-881-1\" data-target=\"#43850c8efefea5571\" href=\"#43850c8efefea5571\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon fa-arrow-up fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon fa-arrow-down fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">9. You don't have to get everything right<\/span><\/a><\/h2><\/div><div id=\"43850c8efefea5571\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_43850c8efefea5571\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p class=\"p1\">Families sometimes worry about whether they are making the right decisions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">There may be strong traditions in your family. There may be none.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Family members might also have different ideas about what they want or what they think the person who has died would have wanted. 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